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How much use of teeth do you find acceptable during kissing or sex? Does it feel like being ravaged by Dracula or being nibbled by Doctor Fish?
Personally, I’m kinda partial to it but I’m never sure if my partners are into it.
If you’re not sure, ask. 🙂 Communication is the best way to have great sex, and you’ll be appreciated for it more that the partner that just makes assumptions. How the biting feels can be influenced by the amount of hormones (or drugs) pumping through you at the time too. Sometimes even a little biting is too much for me, but I had one partner literally chew through my shoulder once. That hurt for a while.
As long as they know they can speak up at any time and it won’t ruin the mood they’ll likely be willing to try things that they would hesitate to engage in with other, less attentive, partners.
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LikeDislikeHmmm… I don’t do too much with teeth kissing, and nor do I appreciate much. I guess it is because I’m a brass player and I’ve dated a lot of brass players and we are protective of those chops!
However biting elsewhere…amazing, fantastic…I’d go so far as to say necessary if you really want to keep me enthralled. I personally love having the back of my neck and shoulders bitten as well as my clit. And my last partner enjoyed liberal use of teeth during felatio. The key of all of this going well of course is being open to communication and paying attention to responses and requests of your partner.
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LikeDislikeI personally like just a little ear nibble or a bite on the but cheek. Nothing that will leave bruises! Anything more than that is for me off putting. Add a little growl and its all good!
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LikeDislikeFor me, a little nibbling is a good thing. The occasional bite at the right moment can be wonderful and I don’t mind a minor reminder of the evenings festivities.
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LikeDislikeHmmm… I’d have to say that I like nuzzling and nibbling especially around the cheeks, earlobes, and shoulders, or maybe the back, but I’m not into anything that really hurts or leaves a mark.
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LikeDislikeAs others have already stated, this is where communication comes in. Some don’t like any sort of biting, others love it. You can just tear into someone without at least discussing it boundaries first. Also, it is very important to use a safe word. Always. No matter how vanilla your sex may be.
Now as for my personal preferences, it depends on my mood. Sometimes, all I want it little nibbles and bites. Anywhere is fine. But preferences include inside of the wrist, inside of the thigh, ass, ear lobe, and that part where your neck meets the shoulder. The neck/shoulder thing is most effective if you extend the neck away from the shoulder. Other times, the harder you bite me the better. Sometimes, I’ll even bite myself because I really want the bite and my partner hasn’t been providing it. I’ve left myself some serious bruises to the inside of my arm.
Because for me it is very dependent on my mood, I try my best to communicate, either vocally what I want or by starting the aggression in the way I want to receive it. If I’m being gentle with my touch, then I want gentle touch in return. If I’m being forceful, either with grabs or bites or whatever, then I want force in return. In situations where I’m wanting to be submissive, then that is when I vocalise what I want. And if it ever gets to be too much, I’ll safe word the situation.
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LikeDislikeI have a nibbling technique that involve folding my lips over my teeth so that I’m biting my lips. It’s kinda biting, kinda not; there’s gentle pressure from the teeth, but there’s no actual contact between my teeth and the other person, and there are serious limits to how forceful the biting gets, such that it’s pretty much never going to leave a mark. If someone prefers actual contact with teeth, they need to let me know.
On the receiving end, I’m not particularly into being nibbled, myself, and the biting/scraping sensation of actual teeth, especially against sensitive tissue, is a big turnoff for me, even though gentler pressure often feels good. I think that’s part of what’s motivated my personal approach.
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